When was the last time you and your husband laugh together? If I had not done this habit, you should return the joy of relationships through humor or humorous stories.
According to marriage expert John Gottman, founder of the Gottman Institute in Seattle, USA, one of the recipes lasting marriage is a relationship marked by humor and filled with laughter. Because, when the couple laughing together, they drain the positive energy to each other.
Humor, it can evoke mood. When the mood was chaotic, humor or jokes can change the feeling of sadness, anger, hate to be a relaxed feeling. You can both laugh out loud, automated stress disappear.
Unfortunately, this time not a few marriages are forgetting 'strength' of humor. Especially, when the burden of taking care of baby, and growing housing needs. Whereas, when humor 'buried', the burden will be felt more heavily, the result appears in the tension between the two of you, who actually triggered the conflict.
But, do not worry. You and your husband still can, return the humor in marriage. Do it again honed sense of humor therapy. Not as difficult as imagined, because the humor or laughter is like a virus that can spread quickly to the people around you.
If you want to bring a healthy humor in your marriage, try the following trick:
- Involve the humor in everyday conversation. That way, no matter how the problem can be felt light. The easiest one is laughing at something that you experience. Either that, everyday events in the office, when traffic jams on the road or at home.
- Avoid sarcasm humor, and charged SARA. Avoid jokes too sensitive, and could offend a husband, for example about the job positions that have not been well promoted or earnings that are smaller than you.
- Collect stories, riddles or rhymes funny from magazines, newspapers or internet.Write on paper, then put in the fridge. When you or your husband want to take something from the fridge, you both can accidentally read the funny story. At least, it could make you smile
- Give the husband to want to share the spirit of humor. Listen and appreciate jokes that her husband asked. When seeing you enjoy humor, he will feel happy, and continue to be funny.
- Watch a comedy movie together. Invite her to watch comedy movies.
- Mingle with colleagues who like humor. That way you reference in terms of anecdotes or funny stories others can grow. And, do not forget to tell your husband back
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